when you think of someone ,you can not afford to decide why they are doing such think ,because you don’t know their exact story …
so today in this post we are see a how to judge other . we are never judge other because we don’t know other hidden stories.
The teacher teaching a Maths to a class of 6 years old asked a boy called Arnav in class , Arnav If I give you 2 mangoes and 2 mangoes ,How many will you have?
Arnav said ,”5′ ,
The Teacher said “Arnav If I give you 2 +2 mangoes then how many will you have? 5 replied Arnav again..
The teacher was upset, but Arnav’s Mom said ,” Arnav does not like mangoes he likes Strawberries”.
so she changed her examples.If I give 2 Strawberries and 2 Strawberries ,How many will you have?
“4” Arnav replied
Oh the teacher was pleased by the change of strategy. Just confirm that, Arnav had understand his maths right.She asked Arnav again ,” Arnav ,If I give you 2 Mangoes and 2 mangoes ,how many you will have ?
Arnav replied “5”.
The teacher now annoyed ,How can 2 and 2 strawberries be 4 and 2 and 2 mangoes be 5 .
Arnav replied –” I already have 1 mango in my bag madam.
Then who was right ,Was teacher wrong, No because 2+2 is 4. Was Arnav wrong, No beacuse 2+2 is 4 and 1 mango in bag make its 5.
It is not a fact that all kinds of conflicts come back because of the gap between technical and practical rightness .The teacher was technically right, technically rightness means to see the obvious ,technically rightness means to see what is visible and Arnav was practically right. Practically rightness means to see beyond what is visible seen, practically rightness means to see the hidden mangoes.
very often all our conflicts come because the gap between the technical and practical rightness, whenever you find that your spouse is not loving you enough .Yes , you may be technically right. He or she not actually love you that much,But are you practically right?
Practically rightness means to see the hidden mango .why is he or she not loving you?
Your child may not be listening to you , but are you practically right? Practically rightness means to try to see the hidden mango beyond the obvious .Why your child is not behaving right.
The next time you see someone not fit into your definition of ” what is technically right , please do not be judgment go beyond the obvious “. Go beyond the scene and try to look for the hidden mango .which will truly help you to understand the person and resolve the conflicting situation that you are in.
Never Judge others,You don’t know their story ! by Gaur Gopal Das
YouTube link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rmkQ_wAgwXo